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MURDERED: Sandra Birchmore

In 2021, 23-year-old Sandra Birchmore was found dead in her apartment. And what Massachusetts investigators quickly called a suicide slowly revealed itself to be something much more sinister. Because out of the woodwork came friends, family, and co-workers with stories that Sandra had told them about her life. Stories of grooming, sexual abuse, and years of misconduct at the hands of several Stoughton Police officers… which began when she was barely a teenager. 

Three officers later resigned from the department. With a 2026 federal trial pending, the whole state has been left to wonder whether Sandra’s death was truly a suicide – as state police continue to maintain – or the end result of something much darker.

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Timeline:

2010
2010

Sandra Birchmore joins the Stoughton Police Explorer Program at 13 years-old.

2013
2013

Sandra and Officer Matthew Farwell begin a sexual relationship.

2016
2016

Sandra’s mother passes away from a stroke and weeks later, her grandmother also dies.

December 2020
December 2020

Sandra tells Matthew she is pregnant and that he is the father. Their text messages show escalating conflict.

January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021

A friend calls the Stoughton Police Department and tells an officer that Sandra is in a sexual relationship with a Stoughton officer or detective. The officer tells Matthew about it, and he tells the person not to speak about it again.

January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021

Sandra texts a friend that Matthew is suddenly acting positively about the situation. That same night, Matthew asks for a key to her apartment and the code to her building’s entrance.

February 1, 2021
February 1, 2021
Afternoon

Sandra leaves work early because school is closed for a snowstorm and returns to her Canton apartment. Building surveillance shows her coming and going alone.

Just after 5 p.m.

Surveillance shows Sandra picking up a food delivery.

5:31 p.m.

Surveillance shows Sandra briefly stepping outside to brush snow off her car before going back upstairs. This is the last time she appears on camera.

Around 9 p.m.

Matthew texts Sandra asking if he can “come by for a second.” She replies that she will leave her door open for him. This is the last known message she sends.

9:14 p.m.

A tall man, later confirmed to be Matthew Farwell, is seen on surveillance entering Sandra’s building.

9:40 p.m.

Data from Sandra’s iPhone health app records her last movements, suggesting she dies around this time.

9:43 p.m.

Matthew is seen on surveillance exiting Sandra’s building.

February 4, 2021
February 4, 2021

Police conduct a welfare check at Sandra’s apartment after she had not shown up to work for days. Sandra is found deceased on the floor by her bedroom closet and Massachusetts State Police label the case a suicide.

February 6, 2021
February 6, 2021

Massachusetts State Police interview Matthew Farwell and he admits being at Sandra’s apartment the night she died, but claims he only went to end the relationship. He also claims that when he left, Sandra was alive in the kitchen.

February 24, 2021
February 24, 2021

Stoughton Police Chief Donna McNamara places Matthew Farwell on leave while an internal affairs investigation examines potential policy violations.

September 2022
September 2022

Chief McNamara holds a public press conference outlining the internal investigation’s findings. She states that Matthew Farwell, his twin brother William Farwell, and former Deputy Chief Robert Devine violated their oaths of office and should be entered into the National Decertification Index. She turns the findings over to the Norfolk County District Attorney.

December 2022
December 2022

Sandra’s family files a wrongful-death lawsuit in Norfolk County Superior Court. The suit accuses Matthew, William, and Robert of grooming and sexually abusing Sandra from a young age and implicates them in her death, alleging wrongful death, negligent supervision, negligent retention, pain and suffering, and emotional distress.

August 28, 2024
August 28, 2024

FBI Special Agent Chenee Castruita files an affidavit outlining a homicide theory, citing Matthew’s grooming of Sandra, his motive to silence her; her health data and expert testimony that her injuries align with homicidal asphyxia, not suicide.

Matthew is arrested on a federal charge of killing a witness or victim, a count that carries potential death-penalty exposure. He pleads not guilty and is held without bail in a Rhode Island detention facility.

May 2026
May 2026

A judgment date in Sandra’s family’s wrongful-death suit is scheduled in Norfolk County Superior Court.

Canton Woods Apartments, Massachusetts

Where Sandra Birchmore lived and where she is found deceased.

Sharon, Massachusetts

Sandra Birchmore worked at East Elementary School, where she was a teacher’s assistant and last didn’t show up for work prompting a wellness check by police.

Stoughton Police Department, Massachusetts

The home of the Explorer Program, where Sandra first meets Matthew and William Farwell and Robert Devine as a teen. The internal affairs investigation and Chief McNamara’s reforms are all rooted here.

Norfolk County Superior Court, Dedham, Massachusetts

The court where Sandra’s family files their wrongful-death suit against Matthew and William Farwell and Robert Devine in December 2022.

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